Little known fact- i've always wanted to just bust out dancing in the middle of the street
Its 11:30pm here so im getting ready for bed but I'll be back later on with a real post lol.
|the tote is a promotional item lol and the wrist-let is Kathy Van Zeeland|
|These are probably my favorite. Partially because they are so comfy but also because they only cost me like $5 lol|
|My "im going somewhere fancy and need to look like an adult" heels|
|back when pointy-toe shoes were just coming back in style|
|just a pair of fly heels for hanging out at a bar/lounge- no dancing or at most, 2-stepping|
|another pair of pointy-toes from when they were first making their comeback|
|usually only worn with my chocolate brown suit|
|i have these in gold too|
|my mom calls these my "pimpette/madame" shoes because of the red interior and the fur accents (you probably can't see it)|
|again, just some cutesy heels for hanging out|
|who doesn't have boots that come to at least your calf|
Including the tip on your bill if you have 6+ people in your group at a restaurant. Then have the nerve to remind you to "tip your server" again on top of the one they are already making you pay. GTFOHWTBS.
Being charged a "delivery fee" (sometimes in addition to having a minimum order amount) when you order food. I've always assumed that it went to the delivery driver but apparently not as they also say "don't forget to tip your driver".
Basically a woman's husband of about 1 year has impregnated another woman. The wife sef also get belle for the husband. Both the children are but months apart from each other, with the wife's child being the oldest. The wife now wants to know what she should do.Now, im not upset by the post, it is the comments that had me seeing red. Personally i commented that I wouldn't/couldn't stay with a man that cheated on me but that this lady needs to think it through very well and make up her own mind because she is the one who knows the situation and will have to live with the choices and outcomes (i think that last line was inspired by a-9ja-great's post lol). So of course as this is my stance i have a bit of a bias.
Are you mad??? Unless this woman is 100% financially dependent on the man, what other reason is there for her to stay? Being a single mother is only a horrendous thing because society paints it as such that a woman has little to no worth if she is not in one way or another attached to a man and make matters extremely difficult for a woman to make moves without a man. I lived in a one parent home for some time. I saw my mother struggle to raise me and my sister when my dad left with little to no support as both my grandparents had died when my mom was pregnant with me. But she made it work and we are house of well adjusted, hard-working, and morally upright (or at least i like to think so) individuals. Not to mention that she is now happily married to my stepdad and they just celebrated their 16th wedding anniversary last month. So phooey on the misguided notion that a divorced woman is damaged goods. Im not saying being a single parent is ideal or easy but to me it beats the alternative of allowing my children to see me constantly upset and being disrespected by my husband and subsequently thinking that kind of thing is ok/acceptable.2. She should try and save her marriage and win back her husband.Think about your wedding vows/oaths.
Again, are you mad??? Why should the wife be trying to win back the cheating husband? He is the one that broke the vows and stepped outside of their marriage. Should it not be him that should be trying to win her back??? See this foolish world we live in. Utter rubbish. And as for those vows- if he cannot honor them, why should i (religious obligations aside)?3. If you leave, then he will invite the mistress into the house and she will be reaping the benefits of marriage.
Ha! If that is what the woman wants- a lying, cheating, philandering husband, then good for her! The cane that is used to beat the first wife will be used to beat the second wife, as the saying goes. How can i be jealous of a woman who will now most likely go through the same heartache and drama that i went through? True, it is possible that the man will marry this woman and never ever cheat on her and they have a long blissful life together, but in the unlikely instance that something like that will happen, none of that will change the fact that he has already cheated on me- and produced another baby that is nearly the same age as my own to add insult to injury.4. You should stay and treat your marriage like a contract. Don't rely on him for love and happiness. Just treat him like he's your brother. Cook/clean/keep house for him and find your own happiness elsewhere.
Cock and Bull of the highest caliber! If you can do that, then you are a better human being than me sister!! I can't fathom cooking, cleaning, and washing the dirty undies of a man that would be making me sick to my stomach. Why should i sit here and be unhappy when i could be happy somewhere (and with somebody) else? And even if happiness no dey, im no worse off being on my own than i would be if i stayed with this man that i now despise.
I wasAbsolutely no provocation, no evidence of foul play yet with literally 5 minutes of investigation it was all laid out in front of me- just from listening to that nagging little voice in my head that said uh-uh, something is wrong here. Tread lightly!
datingtalking to this guy a year or two ago. Nice kid, working, had his own place, funny...seemed like a pretty good guy. Everything was going fine, we enjoyed spending time together whether going out or just sitting at home watching tv. Nothing out of the ordinary happened. But one day while we were hanging out, this lil light bulb went off in my head. Something wasn't right. I ignored it at first. The guy had given no signs that anything was amiss. There were no "strange phone calls", no odd or off-putting behavior, nothing. But the feeling just would not go away. So i did some small snooping and yup...everything that glittered definitely was not gold.
Your boyfriend/fiance/husband (whichever you are more comfortable with for this scenario) leaves for work at the usual time. He calls you around 2pm to say he is staying late. He finally shows up at around midnight. Intuition tells you that something may be wrong and you should ask some subtle yet leading questions. Paranoia tells you to throw hot grits on him as he walks through the door because he was obviously out screwing his secretary!I must say that paranoia is not always negative. Paranoia can also lead to delusions of grandeur. Example:
Your man leaves the house to go "hang out with the fellas" and play some basketball at around 11am. He tells you he'll be back in a couple of hours after he's done hoopin' with his boys. You have been trying to call him all day but to no avail. He comes home at about 2am, smelling like cucumber melon soap and has a pink smudge on the collar of his shirt. Your intuition tells you this nigga must be crazy. "hanging out with the fellas" my ass! Your paranoid delusions of grandeur will have you thinking you are Beyonce and singing: My ego so big i must admit, i got every reason to feel like im that bitch! so he couldn't possibly be fooling around.My message: trust your intuition! 9 times out of 10 it will steer you in the right direction. If your gut (or that lil voice- however your intuition manifests itself) is telling you that something isn't right, it probably isn't! But, do not let your intuition jump to paranoia. I know it is not a very big leap so its very easy to allow your thoughts to get you carried away. Unless you find yourself in immediate danger, it is best to be subtle in trying to find out what you want to know. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar (though i don't know why you would want to catch flies in the first place).
|where the hell are you going...|
|wearing this ridiculous looking...|
|courtesy of 360nobs.com|
|courtesy of 360nobs.com|
|so i got dressed...|
|threw on the 6 inch heels (if im not girly about anything else, im definitely girly about shoes)|
|Only to go outside and see that some bastard hit my car!|
|and they didn't even leave a "my bad" note|