Wednesday, September 3, 2014

The finer things in life

I was watching an episode of Criminal Minds the other day about a high priced call girl/escort/hooker who was killing off her wealthy customers. And it got me to wondering, how do you even get in that line of work? Not hooking in general, because that seems simple enough lol. But being a high-priced escort...how does that work? I mean, in the episode this girl was gettin paid like $10000 a session. Thats some serious bread for something one culd probably get for free.
Now, i'm not saying im bout that life...but i am curious how does one even go about acquiring a job like that at that pay rate lol. Like, do you fill out an application, go for a test run to determine how much your cookie is worth, do they do open house recruiting? IDK.

Sidenote: what i did learn from this episode is that dudes are stupid. How can you be told that theres a hooker killing off your colleagues and still be frequenting your hooker anyway? Like  you really couldnt give it a few days until she got arrested? men, smh.

Friday, August 15, 2014

what does it all mean?

Someone just blogged something like "let a man be a man and a woman be a woman"

What does that even mean? What defines "manhood"? What defines "womanhood"? Who came up with these definitions? Why do we cling to them, even when its to our own detriment? Why does someone else get to dictate who and what i should be based on whether i have xx or xy chromosomes?

#QTNA

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Lust and trust and other stuff

In my last post, someone commented that it would be a problem for their S.O to stare at/comment on another woman's boo-tay because lusting is a sin and so on and so forth. But my question is, what is lusting? Are we insinuating that a booty can not be appreciated without there being some sexusl component there? I mean, no one is going to accuse you of lustful thoughts if you comment on someone's eyes or hairdo. So why is it automatically assumed that if you comment on someones ass (or boobs or abs or even their genitals if for some non-sexual reason you see em) its because your mind is flooded with dirty thoughts? I may make dirty comments here for comedic value but honestly I cant remember the last time I saw some flesh and literally started letting my thoughts and loins run away to fantasyland...

I struggle with the concept of trust. Not hecause I find it difficult to trust people. Its actually just a really stupid idea to me lol. Im not saying you should live your life expecting the absolute woret from everyone, but...this whole idea of a person being worthy of your trust just because they havent (as far as you know) effed you over...YET. If thats the caee, yhen everyone is trustworthy until they're not. All I can say is I dont put anything past anyone.

I think I should have listened to Ginger and taken up being a eex therapist ofvsome sort because I have been analyzing quite a few ppl lately and my analysis has been right on the nose. Something to think about.

So...I stole this vapor/hookah-ish thing from my friend, not realizing that the stuff you put in it has nicotine in it...so I thihkn im a smoker now lol

I hope everyone had a happy 4th (if youre stateside...otherwise im sure it was just another day for you). Mine was...interesting, idk if it was interesting...yeah, interesting.

Sit tight folks, the weekend is almost here!